Marriage and you

Observe ,Smile, Be Polite,Women is the axis of house,What you give is what you get,Your image is known by your inlaws and husband.

• Marriage is the most important part of life .
• Everything looks wonderful till honeymoon ,after that you actually realize the big change.
•  Keep your parents and inlaws separated .Donot share anything with each other
• What so ever you are daughter in law of one family and daughter for another family .
• Better be neutral if anyone of them reacts.Do not interven your partner and ban this topic from your discussion .
• Always talk to your inlaws in limit never try to be too sweet or bitter .
• Call your inlaws infront of your partner.
• Be tricky and polite in telling your dislikes .
•  It is good to listen one year then you get an idea about everyone and you both understand each other better .
• What ever your looks are ,what ever money you had the thing that matters is the work ,smile and politeness.
• All relation are good and healthy till limit and respect is followed . 
• Show your positive concern for the family.After all you are known by there name so there reputation and your involvment is key factor.Even you parents call them ur inlaws so develop the positive image of inlaws.
• You have to make your space in everyones heart .Try to accpet everyone the way they are.  
• It is always true marriages are made in Heaven.
• Donot express what you did at your place.
• Opposites attaract each other .
• No matter it is love marriage or arranged marriage only thing is couple should be happy .
• Girls are  mentally prepared since birth to shift house so she adapts fast as compared to guys .
• Respect ,trust,love,motivation  is very important for relation to grow.
• Fights and arguments are part of it but donot make it abusive,cheap,vulgar or physical.
• Donot disclose your fights or issues  in front of  others.
• Guys are diehard posseissive for few things donot pinch on it.
• Every family has it secret you too make a few too .
• Women is the axis of house (remember your mother)be patient,sacrificing and participative.
• Spend the money according to the budget .
• Set some big target(in the form of saving ) to achieve in a year.
•  Go for outing every year .
• It takes a year to understand and estimate the family expenditure.
• Set up your ward drob,Kitchen,Scheduling .
• Everyone has a hectic schedule so plan ,budget and utilze your holidays well .
• Celebrate every festival with zest and zeal filicity and according to the way done at inlaws place. 
• Be supportative .Whatever money you husband earns and share with family donot panic on it .parents are responsibility of you too( Imagine what happen if your brother donot look after your parents)
• Money .property and all these are materialistic things whatever you have should never be more important then persons genuine need (whatever is your money no one can take it from you )Money you try to save by cheap things is never fruitful(GOD send result through internt thses days).
• Never ask for money or gifts from your parents or siblings or inlaws .
• It might be - you see some person have problem from inlaws side but you always know one side of the story do not compare or feel bad about it .
• May be the finacial status of your parents might differ from inlaws never compare it ,you know before marriage about it .Finally you inlaws house is your place respect it love it Improve it .
• Marriage does mean you have to do all chores of house thats is not thing you are maid.Do it with happiness.Although you get maids these days always .
• If anything wrong happen to you then try to said it politely even if its bad for you and your future then try to revolt for it .If you are not happy with anything better to say it rather then doing tricks and tantrums.
• Always fulfill your duties .Atlast your kids are going to follow you.And you will be in that age too

Make some rules like following -

• Sort out your difference same day before going to bed ,donot carry it next day
• Greet good Night and morning  .
• Always good bye as leaving for the office
• Try to cook and serve good food manner n love too
• Neat clean house attarcts everyone.
• Keep things arranged and regular
• Do give calls in office .
• Be clear to your partner about your expectations
• Mostly mens are not very good in expressing .
• Exchange gifts on occassion no matter if hubby donot give.
• Keep the romance alive
• Appreciate for looks and dressing.
• Do something surprising everyday
• Make he atmosphere light and happy.
• Let them hang out with friends too.
• Play and excercise together.
• Respect each other.
• Share your dreams.