Misery of relationship
Only n only team building no matter no way how to do it ? Done by the couple no one can help them.This team build sweet memories,co ordination n beautiful decent kids.
When the vent out is not correct.No communication. If you feel spouse is blame your in laws then does not mean he/she love you that is a part of nature to blame and claim everything .Whatever you fight on day one will be same till you take the last breath. Accept it and ignore it .Space of everyone is gone .Listening and talking ignoring and accepting all go together ...
How things reach divorce?
When the effort are not in the right direction.When there is third person.When nothing works .No one want to ignore and let go or one is so dominant to neutralize the effect of other
Case 2 Her father and mother take decision and talk in eyes both are working so things are mutual .
Case 2A She got married to a husband who is simply believe in male rule home .She is not working and find it difficult to ask for money.Difficult to adjust
Case 2B She got married to husband and she is working her husband take care of her money too.and take decision as he want but pretend to be asking ...She feel happy..
CAse 3 She has seen her parents have abusive relationship
Case 3 A All her life trust and feel good thing will be tough Extreme love and care can heal everything .
Finally I know what it looks in first glance is never the case, to know the mystery of successful marriage only and only couple has to work .no body bothers how happy you are but they love to hear the how much sad you could be ...It is relation of two by the two and for the two ...
Keep smiling N trusting marriage
Note : "Case" is the word I use I know whoso ever is a part of it is not easy I hope I always hear marriages are beautiful for everyone.