Parents and you

The most sensitive and close to relationship we cannot live without it .....we need to have it always ..but sometimes the variation the bonding is very strong weak or very weak ....It is not intentional it just happen ...sometimes the relationship is too intense and suddenly it get far or like that Like every relation this relation need space too ..there are many levels of it
Infant -toddlers -when we are so small only we can take but what is give and what is given makes a big difference
School As the school start it is a big day for all parents and us too lunch pack food and appreciation we get for it is pleasurable  ..........
Teenage --we get to know many things all bad things tempt us curiosity may lead to some bad deeds .....friend circle makes a big difference ...........parents may sound like enemies .....
Adult -- career building time focus on what you want to achieve ..major build up time personally and character wise time to face the world without the direct support of parents ..

Marriage -big change of preference time and relation.We get one more set of parents..we cannot make it equal a line of hesitation and informality is always there.No matter what we need to respect the relationship .

There is additional responsibility  on your shoulder to balance the things in life.Do not be negative all the time there is a big generation gap try to  deal and ignore but ever disrespect .Blood relation can't be changed and not easy to balance the relation with new family...you need time love affection to generate .It is good to be real and respectful because in long term  do not try to do anything which you cannot carry forever in life.Set and speak out the differences.
We need to give ears and  control our tough moments to keep them happy and delightful in the stages of life .No one is perfect in the world we do many things which may hurt many person but we know them later but it should be before getting too late.

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